Want Knowledge.
Show me, amongst you earthlings or among the terrestials, anything or anyone more attractive, more frighteningly powerful than one that knows what they want. Know what you want from a situation, from a person, from a conversation, from the universe and I kid you not that the society will have orgasms from your presence. In every situation you could ever be in or think about, you ought to get or give something. Instances? Sure; It's bad (who am I kidding, it's dumb and suicidal) to go into a relationship with someone who's goals are unclear, whose expectations from the relationship are unhighlighted, because they'll settle for anything or worse they get itchy feet( you should rea lly see the artic le abo ut Better ), they might not want the relationship and that is selfharm right there because you get hurt, your wants just got sabotaged. If you yourself don't know what you fancy from the relationship, you settle for whatever comes and often than not, it's less