Want Knowledge.

Show me, amongst you earthlings or among the terrestials, anything or anyone more attractive, more frighteningly powerful than one that knows what they want.

Know what you want from a situation, from a person, from a conversation, from the universe and I kid you not that the society will have orgasms from your presence.

In every situation you could ever be in or think about, you ought to get or give something. Instances? Sure;
It's bad (who am I kidding, it's dumb and suicidal) to go into a relationship with someone who's goals are unclear, whose expectations from the relationship are unhighlighted, because they'll settle for anything or worse they get itchy feet(you should really see the article about Better), they might not want the relationship and that is selfharm right there because you get hurt, your wants just got sabotaged. If you yourself don't know what you fancy from the relationship, you settle for whatever comes and often than not, it's less. Don't go into a relationship if you aren't sure it's what you desire, if you doubt that they're sure it's you they covet.

Its going to be unproductive to go into a conversation with someone who doesn't know what you want, you're going to hold back in a conversation when you don't know what they want. It's a ton better when you know what you want, when you know what they want because you'll know what to say to get what you want or what unnecessary information to omit other than blubber about stuff none of you are interested in.

Business partnerships have goals, a time frame a cash limit. it's unwise to go into business with someone who doesn't know what they want, what they hope to achieve, because without an end goal, you'll lose, they don't seem to care.
A group instance, school group I like to believe(I hope there's no more grouping after school, wait groupies). If every member knows that they hanker a particular grade y'all know what to do and will help each other get there, but if some of you don't know and they just going with it, they don't care and that is what the Englishmen meant by sabotage. Don't group with people who don't know what they want

All I'm saying is, knowing your aspirations, knowing what they desire(referencial, if you get it up top), that's power right there. Your beauty transcends dimensional boundaries when you know what you want, your success gets sexy. Because if your friends know what you want, they'll help you get there, you'll know how to help your friends achieve their goals. Theres so much support in knowing they're sure that's what they want. Conversations are worthwhile if goals are met(you can't meet goals that are non stated or non existent). Relationships least longer when you're sure that's what you want and are way memorable with achieved expectations. Situations are most productive on a rising gradient for achievements and goals scored.

Regret man, that's what comes with not knowing what you want. And regret is a ghost that haunts for ever.