Basics.

Whenever something wrong happens, to begin the fixing part or moving on part, blame has to be issued. So, whose fault is it? Here’s good news, there’s always going to be an else. Someone or something that you can blame, surprisingly at no extra cost at all. Notice I said extra. Now I get how with nothing to lose how easy that would be to do. But what’s rarely ever in the picture is the impact of someone or something else carrying your blame, the fact that fault does serve a purpose. See, when you accept blame, the subconscious asks “why” and in turn answers the “how” which is the problem. The manifestation of this is the guilt you feel. And because that sucks, your subconscious again goes ahead to formulate an anti-again parameter so it doesn’t happen again. What you may choose to call fixing the problem. Unfortunately, the past cannot be fixed, at least until they invent a time machine or discover a portal to the past. But basically it won’t happen again. Not accepting faul

The world is a cruel place. And we are the world, committing cruelties like it’s our job. But of all the pain that’s a byproduct of this cruelty, at least the ones we are sorry about, no one understands guilt better than the executioner. And no matter what you do, no matter what you say, no matter how you say it, (bet you were expecting another no matter, ha) No one will really ever understand how sorry you are. No one will know what it’s like for you when you’re drowning in guilt. At least not in as much accuracy as you do. And on the worse days, they won’t even believe you. Only you know for sure that you are remorseful, only you really believe that it wasn’t intentional. Only you understand. It’s only fair that you be the first to forgive yourself. Yes, forgiveness doesn’t fix everything, but that first aid will you keep you alive. Of all the people in the world, you deserve your forgiveness the most. They don’t have to forgive you, but you do. It will mean way more when yo

The most common idea of a soulmate is identical. Someone that gets you, someone that likes the things you do, places you do. Honestly however I do not get it. I mean you have a mirror already. How is someone supposed allegedly find happiness in monotony. I get the sharing of things you like with someone but what do they share with you? I mean congratulations on finding your soulmate, but you already like those things, how is that fun? How do you discover places and tastes, what to like and what not to like? I think it should be more about discovering. I think the special thing about soulmates is how different they are and you still being able to connect. I think it’s beautiful when you learn, oh trust me, its magnificent to discover. How does a planet so diverse not embrace diversity? Why are you looking for yourself in others? What about finding yourself in them? Its better half, not same half.

Hurting and getting hurt are as inevitable as Thanos, maybe even as necessary as He was. No matter how much of a darling or saint you are, you have hurt someone, and no matter how high your walls are, you will get hurt, besides, why you have walls that high anyway? And I’m not even talking about karma, just the tragedy that life is. So we’ve both been hurt before right? (if your answer is no, this is a rhetoric) an unpleasancy that was right? But then again, there exist some unpleasant people that do deserve these unpleasancies. So to them, this becomes an execution. But do you deserve these hurts you have been subjected to?(again, if your answer is yes here, this is a rhetoric.) no you do not. So this was not an execution right? Right. Let’s switch the pov for a minute (don’t count) You have hurt someone before, it isn’t your place to decide if you did or not btw. Now I’ll assume that at the time or perchance still currently love(d) that person or at least respect(ed) them. S