Live

"at least now, I've learnt not to give things my all because oh well, the turn out is always the same," said a friend of mine the other day. And this, literally threw me back, still getting headaches from the concussion.
Like what's the point to anything if you aren't giving it your all. Let's say love (his context), whether we want to admit it or not, love isn't a forever thing. While yeah sometimes it does do an extra month, that's the longest it'll take. We have to learn to make the most out if this couple months else what's the goddamn point?

Life in general doesn't last that long either. Think of it as a roller coaster, one ticket one ride and that's it. You focus more on the fun and the screams, than on going "dang it" after the ride and falling into depression because a heart connection with a fun instrument that didn't care broke. The instrument is your boyfriend or girlfriend if you're missing it.i honestly haven't come across a forever activity or person.
The point to anything at all, to any connection, to any activities is how much you're willing to let yourself indulge how much you're willing to give to get back. It's like a surebet, the more you're putting into it,the more you're getting out of it. While short dreams suck, if they got you wet they were great.
For everything you do, every relationship you devote yourself to, make memory, make it count. And when it's over, it'll be easier to move on if it was worthwhile, and if the end is your fault, lack of money for another ticket or you just don't last long enough or you fucked up, your indulgence will ease it out. You won't ever know how much satisfaction you'll get from something if you don't give it your all. For love, don't go into a relationship if you're not willing to give it your all because your partner is giving it their all and you're being an ass.
Live and let live.