Better

I swear it has got to be the hardest thing to pick a shoe or a dress or a car or favorite song or film. You find one you like but then there's that black dress, the beats to this song are dapper, the lyrics to the other however are mind blowing, the story line to this film is waaay better but that other one has Efron or Ms.Yara Shahidi in it(insert your celebrity crush), this car has waaay better mileage than the other one but then this one is a four-wheeler, and aaaaargh why are there so many good things existing at the same time. How tf do people pick favorites, how do people know what to go with and what not to go with?
Humans are in parallel existence with this fact as well. There's always going to be a better person. Taller, Richer(not bringing into consideration Mr. Gates or Mtukufu Moi) Smarter, Funnier, one that dresses better, Accents that are love, some are more considerate than others, bigger dicks, cuter faces, and oh God the diversity of the human race is so vast thinking about it is stressing. And thus choice becomes one of the most underrated human crisis'. Who to pick over who is such a hard thing we have to keep on dropping friends and lovers to get new ones but then that's not what you want either and you drop those too and your heart and trust is broken into so many pieces it is impossible to be yourself again. You contract a condition known as insatiability. Always going for the next better thing you come across and you never quite have the time to fully enjoy what you have, to explore who you have so you get bitter and bitter cursing everything and everyone that didn't satisfy you, that didn't make your dreams come true but then, I pretty much think you're the one with the condition.
However folks, there exists good news. There is a cure, and perhaps if it isn't too late for you, a vaccine. Contentment. No, your plug will not have this vaccine neither will you find it at the drug store.
Here's a diy on how to cook it up:
You must understand that you will find better, that you will come across choices that are eclectic beyond your mind's reach. And please, do not misunderstand me (like you so often do), I am not in statement that going for the finest things that exist is a bad thing. I am simply saying everyone and everything is the finest in its own way. And that when you're out to get something, to get with someone, you must be in knowledge that you're ready that that is what you want. That it is what you must get. That's why they invented window shopping, you do not buy during window shopping. That's also why your friends or at least one of them or a cousin is a hoe, so that without direct involvement, you know the kinda guys that exist. You could opt to read about them too. I'll delve more into humans.
See before you ask or say yes to someone, you must be sure they're what you want, that you're ready. Because, I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but you have not gotten the best. They should however, through contentment, be the best in your eyes. That no matter who or what approaches you, you already have what you need.that you are content. Also when I say all you need, you should know that no one is going to have everything you need but you can work on it(not always a guaranteed success of course but best of luck mate). So don't go into a relationship not sure about what you want or still clinging on to your past relationships because your hurt will manifest into your partner's hurt and that's inconsiderate and mean. We fall in with the wrong people sometimes and it's okay, but don't break yourself too much. Be sure about what you're looking for, be content about it when you find it. I truly hope you find what you're looking for.

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