Mirroring

Maybe it's just me or circles I'm in, but all types of human association are becoming more short lived and even less memorable. Human experience is a total non-recommend at this point. Friendships are ending fast and relationships don't last any longer than how long it takes your boyfriends to cum(yes that's a burn). And well, like always, everyone's blaming the next person. It's always them huh?(It wasn't me by Shaggy starts playing)
What about what you did?

So typically, the problem is society. no wait, i mean we as society are the problem. But what you don't know is what the actual problem is, and I'll tell you. I call it mirroring. Yes, from mirror. Let's explore what it means.
 You know what you call preferences, when you say you prefer a particular habit, or when certain habits don't excite you and you think, ah why would anyone like that? That's the problem. Now i'm not saying there's a problem with you having preferences, there's always better.  But when your preference creates a bias it becomes a problem. I'd call it toxicity but cliche wouldn't that be. When you advice someone against it, when you think someone's lame or bad for choosing that. Thats the problem. Again how is that a problem?
People know humanity is diversity, people know how different every individual is from the next but they haven't embraced that yet. So when we make friends, we base how close we are with them from how similar they are to us, from how much they'll wanna do what we'll wanna do, and if we stretch too far, we hope they will be like a friend you had or friends you have and if they aren't, it just doesn't work out. That's why when we get into relationships, a lot of us are looking for our exes in them, because you're used to your ex doing something and this one doesn't, it annoys you or makes you uneven, because they don't laugh like your ex or because they are not your ex, and the even bigger problem is the mirroring mentality makes all these a subconscious function. You don't get why little things he does or she says annoy you, you don't get why you wanna change so many things about her. And why friendship after relationship keep failing. Because there's nothing different you're doing different, you're figuratively dating your ex's reincarnation (hoping she was dead to you, to which i offer my sincerest condolences)

But lemme introduce you to a concept. Instead of asking for the same coffee flavor everyday, try a new flavor, odds are that you might not like it, but what if you love it? Have the waiter bring you the item you can't pronounce, might be easier to love it. Explore, you'll never learn if the people around you are you. You won't find out how much you might love someone's little things more, how much better people's experience get. How happy you can be. If you keep mirroring, you live in a circle, you never really get to enjoy human diversity in its entirety.