I love you, you have so much money.

Like the third or fourth step to when someone tells you they love you, then comes the hardest question, why do you love me? Some say if you can't answer that question, the love is a fraud. Others just go wild and will not leave the paper blank so you'll get so many reasons, some that don't even make sense, but love doesn't either so it's okay. I mean, there's an unsummable number of things that could draw you to someone, so many things and yet just one or two things. sometimes it's subconsciously decided but now often it's things we see and experience.(Before you go on, scroll to the comments section and tell me things that drew you to your current or previous lovers)

Thus the fight between inner beauty and the physical arose. Like God, considering some of us are His children, we claim to look at what's beneath, the heart we say. This includes similarity of people’s beliefs and, to a lesser extent, similarity of personality traits as well as the range and ways of thinking, familiarity with the other, which can be caused by spending time together, living near each other, thinking about the other, or anticipating interaction with the other. These however tho branch into a million particular traits and reasons, we won't go into that.

The other type, we get drawn by a more general attraction attribute from the physical. how they look, how they sound and even how tall or short they are. Going further into specifics like piercings and tattoos or eyes and you get the point.

But for a complete experience, both merge, we go for the inner and outer beauty. And we can't all like the same things right? That's why for instance people stay in abusive relationships or with people we might consider unworthy of them. Because they see and are looking at things we aren't, most of the time at least, which then begs my question.

If you are attracted to how tall a nigga is, or how short a babe is, how is it better than being attracted to money? If you like their eyes, their tattoos, how they treat you, how they dress, how is that different from money and wealth?(Answers in the comments, I will add a paragraph with answers for every comment)

The most repeated answer in all discussions is parmanency of money. Ha, let's break that down. 

So you love him or her because of the way they treat you, they're nice and romantic, you even have a t-shirt that says chivalry isn't dead. What happens if that changes, if suddenly he becomes rude and not nice and the chivalry gets run over. You leave him I suppose. If your answer isn't leave you're doing it wrong. Let's try that again, you love her because she's a beautiful submissive, she's nice and kind and she lights up your world, but then she changes, becomes mean, you fight all the time and she says hurtful things about your dick, do you still stay? The answer is no.

 So she loves him because he has money, first, the money is his, and he spends it. Two, like a nice nigga stopping being nice to becoming violent, isn't any different from this guy losing his money. Both were desirable traits that changed. Or am I not making sense? 

Money is desirable, to everyone. But why is it disqualified as an attractive trait in someone. I mean yes, the guy is ugly and yes he isn't that tall, but he picks her up in Beamer, they have dinner at Trattoria and yes, his dick isn't that big but the bed is big everything else is beautiful. I mean wtf. So how is he a gold digger if that's what turns him on. If how lavish she is is what he likes, how dare you look down on him. I mean you love her because she's kind, that's cute but kindness and money don't tally. Think about it and maybe come fight me.

So if you have money and she loves money, it's your money and it's you, so she does like you. That is genuine love. I mean she is after your money, same way that other girl is after how nice and kind the guy is.  I don't see how money isn't accepted as a trait. But i might say it's because some people don't have it and hate to think that above the usual desirable traits, money is a trait and topples the scales. Let me know what you think please. Would you be okay if someone was attracted to you because of how much money you have?