Basics.

I swear it has got to be the hardest thing to pick a shoe or a dress or a car or favorite song or film. You find one you like but then there's that black dress, the beats to this song are dapper, the lyrics to the other however are mind blowing, the story line to this film is waaay better but that other one has Efron or Ms.Yara Shahidi in it(insert your celebrity crush), this car has waaay better mileage than the other one but then this one is a four-wheeler, and aaaaargh why are there so many good things existing at the same time. How tf do people pick favorites, how do people know what to go with and what not to go with? Humans are in parallel existence with this fact as well. There's always going to be a better person. Taller, Richer( not bringing into consideration Mr. Gates or Mtukufu Moi ) Smarter, Funnier, one that dresses better, Accents that are love, some are more considerate than others, bigger dicks , cuter faces, and oh God the diversity of the human race is so

So everytime I disagree with someone on something, most of the population reverts to some phrase that's becoming unnervingly annoying everytime I hear it. They say 'everyone is entitled to their opinion'. And yeah,it's true. I fully understand that we cannot all have an agreed upon view on happenings and goings. But that phrase,at least around circles I've rubbed shoulders with(why must our shoulders touch tho?), they use it to get away from the conversation, to avoid admittance that they're wrong, to remain right. I understand. People should however understand that while we're all entitled to our opinion, some of these opinions are just wrong and absurd. And while it goes against everything egos and pride stand for, it's alright to accept that we need to admit knowledge(sometimes from the most unlikely of people and things) and that opinions we formulate should be flexible. That situations change, and people do too and our opinions and judgements of t

"at least now, I've learnt not to give things my all because oh well, the turn out is always the same," said a friend of mine the other day. And this, literally threw me back, still getting headaches from the concussion. Like what's the point to anything if you aren't giving it your all. Let's say love (his context), whether we want to admit it or not, love isn't a forever thing. While yeah sometimes it does do an extra month, that's the longest it'll take. We have to learn to make the most out if this couple months else what's the goddamn point? Life in general doesn't last that long either. Think of it as a roller coaster, one ticket one ride and that's it. You focus more on the fun and the screams, than on going "dang it" after the ride and falling into depression because a heart connection with a fun instrument that didn't care broke. The instrument is your boyfriend or girlfriend if you're missing it.i honestly

While we all ran with half Fran Lebowitz's quote, we didn't quite get it. Fran said 'Think before you speak and read before you think' but we've all told or been told to  think before we speak. But do we really? While it mostly intends to mean, "make sure your message is intellectual enough and that it's on motion" the aspect of impact is always left out. Do you take a minute to think about the impact your utterances could cause. Because most often, shit 'slips' and we say pretty hurtful things. While thank God apologies are a thing, bandages don't heal bullet holes. People will say it's fine, but it's never really fine. Said shit will linger, insecurities will resurface or become shinier, esteems will be slain.( Oh I said slips in qoutes because that's not a slip you dumb ass, it's because you didn't think before you went on verbal rampage. ) Victims then won't stop wondering what else goes on in your mind becau

Show me, amongst you earthlings or among the terrestials, anything or anyone more attractive, more frighteningly powerful than one that knows what they want. Know what you want from a situation, from a person, from a conversation, from the universe and I kid you not that the society will have orgasms from your presence. In every situation you could ever be in or think about, you ought to get or give something. Instances? Sure; It's bad (who am I kidding, it's dumb and suicidal) to go into a relationship with someone who's goals are unclear, whose expectations from the relationship are unhighlighted, because they'll settle for anything or worse they get itchy feet( you should rea lly see the artic le abo ut Better ), they might not want the relationship and that is selfharm right there because you get hurt, your wants just got sabotaged. If you yourself don't know what you fancy from the relationship, you settle for whatever comes and often than not, it's less

Being in the Anno Domini era, a lot of things are expected to be pretty basic . Today I'll do outdoor camouflage on a single item. See sometimes we are outdoors for specified purposes or involuntarily. But since there aren't enough t-shirts on sale that say don't appro ach me or some of us horrible at pulling the RBF, we instead resolve to different basic identifiers, one of which I bring into focus today. Earphones or Headphones . Sure, the invention of these brought about music mobility but over time purpose has been diversified. Earphones and Headphones are now used to shut the world out, in light of how much of a shithole we're turning our planet into. So depending on where you at or the expectation, earphones usage is broken down further. One earphone on basically means hey, if you have i nformation that you think I need or I might need, I am open to hearing you out. I gotta need it for you to approach me tho, if not, uhm, don't approach me where else b